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Sunday, September 2, 2012

Labor Day


Tomorrow is Labor Day.  In our country, most of us get so few days off that we’re thrilled at the prospect of a rare three day weekend and we infrequently give a second thought as to the occasion.  Even for Veteran’s Day or Memorial Day, most folks are focused not on the holidays themselves, but on the ability to catch up on some sleep or other aspect of their personal lives. 

 

Moreover, in the United States our modern culture celebrates capitalism and anything remotely resembling a Marxist attitude is held highly suspect.  The holiday was originally proposed in the 19th century as labor unions began to organize.  It was meant to celebrate the American workers’ many contributions to our country.  During my life time, however, it has simply been the official end of summer and for many the start of a new school year.  No one I know has ever taken time to celebrate workers on Labor Day.  That sounds somewhat Marxist to many.  And these days unions are vilified widely.

 

I think the status of Labor Day is unfortunate.  Most people spend the majority of their waking hours as adults doing work of some kind.  I’ve traveled abroad and have noticed that we as a people work more than most other developed, prosperous nations.  We end up with little time left over.  We neglect our health and our families as a result.  We work, work, work.  And much of it seems to be driven by fear.  Compared to other nations, our workers have fewer protections and fewer benefits.  It is a dog-eat-dog world in the American work place.  Because people make such sacrifices for their employers, I don’t understand why we’re hesitant to take a day and just applaud all that hard work.  You don’t have to be an adherent of Lenin or Mao to just be grateful for all the hard work folks in our society perform.

 

Our nation was founded on revolutionary principles that all men are created equal and deserving of a voice in how our country is governed.  Despite this egalitarian ideal, I’ve noticed in recent years that we’ve grown more like older, less democratic nations in being very class-conscious.  Comedians ridicule “Bubba” and people who wear a uniform with their name.  Living in a trailer, not having clothes with the right labels and not having an educational pedigree are all reasons to look down upon others.  Not only do these attitudes clash with my religious beliefs, I find them offensive on a personal level.  I actually have a relative named Bubba, and a number of my relatives have uniforms with a name tag.  I spent about the first seven years of my life living in a trailer (in Texas no less!).  I’m fairly sure I don’t own any designer clothes.  I was educated exclusively in public schools throughout grade school and for all of my degrees.  I am not embarrassed in the slightest by any of these facts, but instead find them to be a source of pride to a certain extent.  (As a Christian, I recognize the pitfalls of pride and strive to rid myself of that trait.)

 

I think this increased class consciousness is another reason we as a people are reluctant to celebrate the achievements of workers.  On some level, many of us just don’t respect blue collar or hourly wage earners.  We actually look down on people doing unpleasant tasks, so why would we celebrate their work?

 

My maternal grandpa grew up on a rural farm during the Depression.  Times were tough.  Everyone had to work hard to pull together.  Even at an early age, kids had to pitch in.  Because of this up-bringing, my grandpa taught his children the importance of a strong work ethic, and the respect that we should all have for the work that others do.  He emphasized that we should never look down upon someone for what they did for a living.  Instead, he taught that we should be grateful for their contributions, whatever they were.  Grandpa would tell his kids how he admired the men picking up garbage and the men repaving the roads during the South Texas summer.  Grandpa would note those were not things he would necessarily want to do, but they were critical to our society.  Someone had to do them, and grandpa was so appreciative of the men that did them.  Those men did everyone else a huge favor.  Grandpa had a great attitude, which I wish more folks shared.

 

This weekend I was out running errands with my kids.  We had a Christian radio station on and a familiar song played: Steven Curtis Chapman’s “Do Everything.”  As I listened to the lyrics in the car, they seemed so apropos for Labor Day.  Mr. Chapman sings about three main types of workers: a stay-at-home mom, a man whose work uniform has his name on it, and a respected business executive.  Of the three, our society really only admires and celebrates the latter.  But Mr. Chapman’s point is that all three are equally valued by God.  Amen! 

 

A video of Mr. Chapman’s song is available at the link below.  Enjoy!

 


 

Proverbs 24:27-29

Prepare in an out-place thy work, And make it ready in the field -- go afterwards, Then thou hast built thy house.

Be not a witness for nought against thy neighbour, Or thou hast enticed with thy lips.

Say not, “As he did to me, so I do to him, I render to each according to his work.”

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Devotion


I’m not sure how, but I recently came across the following article on David Beckham:






Honestly, I’m not much of a soccer fan unless my children are on the field.  And I am aware that Mr. Beckham is married to and has kids with one of the former Spice Girls, but I don’t follow celebrity “news” closely, so I don’t know much about their family.  Nonetheless, I somehow came across and read this article, in which Mr. Beckham’s post-soccer plans were discussed. 



Admittedly, it was a strange article.  It is based upon Snoop Dogg’s discussion of Mr. Beckham’s plans based on private conversations the two friends have had.  I must confess that for a variety of reasons, I’m not a fan of Mr. Dogg.  I admit I’m not terribly familiar with his work, so perhaps I’m being unfair.  I guess I have trouble getting past the associations with drugs, violence and sexualization in his media persona.  But perhaps that is all just hype and he is a great guys.



Anyhow, the article above was about how (per Mr. Dogg) Mr. Beckham wants to devote himself to his kids full-time and even have more kids when his soccer career is eventually over.  Apparently, Mr. Beckham had told Mr. Dogg he would “love to be a stay-at-home dad” in the future.  The thought is that Mr. Beckham’s wife, Victoria, could devote more of her time to her clothing labels while Mr. Beckham is “staying at home and making the breakfast and changing the diapers.” 



Mr. Dogg commended Mr. Beckham for being such a “passionate father” and for “keeping it real for all fathers out there.”  The article concludes with the author, Ben Maller, indicating: “All things considered, with a reported net worth of more than $200 million, Beckham can afford to retire as Mr. Mom with many more children.”



I don’t know the Dogg or Beckham families, so I cannot comment on the accuracy of the information in the article.  But I thought several aspects of this article were interesting.



First, it is apparently “news” that a father wants to spend more time with his children.  That seems unusual to most of us, maybe even odd.  Lots of moms want to spend more time with their kids.  That seems to be expected though.  In our culture, we don’t necessarily expect a dad to want to spend time caring for his kids.  The unspoken assumption seems to be that fathers should be accomplishing things with their time, not investing it in their families.  What does that assumption say about our culture?  What does it say about our values?



Second, per Mr. Dogg, being a stay at home parent seems chiefly to involve “making the breakfast and changing the diapers.”  I am not picking on Mr. Dogg.  I suspect that he is actually representing the view of many people in our society when citing tasks like those first in a quick brainstorm of the responsibilities of a stay-at-home parent.  That is interesting.  Those are fairly ministerial tasks.  Rich folk like the Doggs and Beckhams can hire someone to cook breakfast and change junior’s diaper.  Heck, less affluent folks effectively do the same when they send their kids to day care.  To me, that is not the greatest value of a caregiver.  You can feed someone and wipe feces off their butt without caring about them as human beings.  To me, the real value of parents or any caregiver is investing time in a child.  Making them feel loved by listening to them, engaging them, playing with them, and teaching them. 



Third, I thought Mr. Maller’s closing statement about Mr. Beckham being able to “retire as Mr. Mom” was very telling.  For those who don’t know, Mr. Mom was a 1983 film by John Hughes starring Michael Keaton as a dad who lost his job and became a full-time caregiver while his wife resumed her career to support the family.  It was a silly comedy about role-switching adventures when husband and wife exchange traditional roles.  It was such a crazy concept at the time: a husband staying home to clean the house and take care of the children.  Wild stuff!  But that concept is still so novel that almost 30 years later, when a father contemplates staying home to care for his kids, this silly film is still referenced. 



Further, Mr. Maller’s phrasing suggests that being a caregiver is not a sufficient enough vocation for a primary career.  Being a full-time caregiver is something you retire to—like playing golf or taking up crafts.  It is essentially a leisure activity.  It is not important.  You do it only after you are finished with your “real” career.  (Kicking a ball around a field is clearly so much more important than raising children to be happy, well-adjusted adults.)



I find these attitudes interesting and telling.  They are really insightful into tragic societal attitudes about caregiving in general and fathering in particular.


Psalm 94:6
They slay the widow and the foreigner; they murder the fatherless.

Sunday, May 20, 2012

"More Beautiful"

Ironically, just a few hours after my last post, I was listening to Christian radio and heard another song that fit with the recent themes in this blog.  The song is Jonny Diaz's "More Beautiful."  It is a powerful song and fits nicely with the songs in the last post, so I wanted to add it.  Take a listen by using the link below.  Enjoy!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Lb-bRQMCBs&feature=related


1 Samuel 16:7

"The Lord does not look at the things man looks at.  Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart."

Friday, May 18, 2012

Songs about Beauty


I’ve been blogging recently on our culture’s double standards with respect to physical appearance for men and women, as well as the culture’s impossible standards for female beauty.  There are many disturbing aspects of these phenomena.  But as a mother to daughters, one aspect that particularly concerns me is the struggle of girls and young women to conform to these standards. 

First, they are unattainable standards.  As I have noted before, these images are not reality.  Between the Botox, the plastic surgery and the air-brushing, what we see is only an idealized vision of what women should look like. 

Young people especially don’t always understand the falsity of these images.  And it causes all kinds of pain when girls and young women can’t make themselves look like these phony popular culture images being lauded.  When females try to live up to these standards, it is equivalent to boys and young men trying to live up to the standard set by the Superman character in comic books.  It’s a no-win situation.

Second, as a person of faith, I particularly worry about the misplaced time and effort when our youth are encouraged to focus disproportionately on their appearance.  At best, physical beauty is fleeting.  It is not permanent.  And Jesus taught us to minister to the brokenness of those around us.  That is how we should use our time and resources instead of primping and buying tons of make-up and accessories.

There are two songs I wanted to share that seem apropos to these concerns about our culture’s fixation on physical beauty.  They are accessible at the links below.  I hope you enjoy them.



“Beautiful” by Mercy Me




“Fingerprints of God” by Steven Curtis Chapman




Matthew 7:24-27
“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”